Pet loss

In many households, pets are considered members of the family. Understandably, the thought of losing a pet is difficult. If your pet is ill, consult a veterinarian about the available treatment options. Euthanasia may be a valid option if the pet is terminally ill or critically injured; there is more pain than pleasure in the pet's life; the pet can no longer share with you or your family the things it once enjoyed; the financial or emotional cost of treating the pet is beyond your means; or the pet has become vicious, dangerous or unmanageable.

Whenever possible, involve family members or other loved ones in the decision to pursue aggressive treatment or euthanize the pet. Do not exclude children from the decision-making or grieving process. Be sensitive to their feelings and address their questions and concerns in a simple, straightforward, truthful manner. If you decide to end your pet's life, allow everyone time to say goodbye. If you want to be present when the pet is euthanized or participate in the burial or dispensing of the ashes, express your wish.

When a beloved pet dies, allow yourself to mourn the loss. Expect to experience grief much like you would if a loved one died. Be prepared for some people to be insensitive or scoff at your grief, however. Remember that you do not need anyone's approval to mourn the loss of your pet. It may help to seek validation from people who will understand. You may want to talk to your veterinarian about hotlines or support groups for pet owners grieving the loss of their pets. To remember your deceased pet, consider preparing a scrapbook or memorial to your pet or making a memorial gift to an animal-related organization.